My gender is being a Dad, which basically means I’m a parent with occasional facial hair. I could probably be enby but idk where the autism ends and gender begins. My gender feels like a role that could change based on life circumstances and I’m mostly okay with that as long as people don’t tell me how or what. It’s like I wasn’t born with a script and I refuse to read one when someone hands me their script. I’ve gotten along without one for this long, why stop now?