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@blibla@slrpnk.net to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone • 6 months ago

closeted programmer rule

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closeted programmer rule

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@blibla@slrpnk.net to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone • 6 months ago
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  • @felykiosa@sh.itjust.works
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    55•6 months ago

    S/he is beautiful🥰🥰

    • Draconic NEO
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      15•6 months ago

      Plot twist: They’re a they/them user and you just misgendered them either way.

      • _cryptagion [he/him]
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        14•6 months ago

        T/S/He/y

        • @yuri@pawb.social
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          9•6 months ago

          Hey

          • Draconic NEO
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            6•6 months ago

            Howdy

        • @P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br
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          2•6 months ago

          Illi (illi)

      • @Iheartcheese@lemmy.world
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        0•6 months ago

        removed by mod

        • qazM
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          6 months ago

          Could you explain why you commented this in this specific comment chain?

          • Draconic NEO
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            6 months ago

            Maybe they thought we were being “woke” or “sensitive” about pronouns?

            • qazM
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              3•6 months ago

              Undoubtedly, but they could’ve said so instead of posting some completely unrelated video as a half-baked statement.

              • @Iheartcheese@lemmy.world
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                -1•6 months ago

                Yep was just a dumb joke like his.

                • Draconic NEO
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                  1•6 months ago

                  Well it wasn’t funny, it came off as off topic at best and borderline queerphobic at worst, and queerphobia doesn’t fly here or on blahaj.zone at all really. My joke may have been bad or dumb to some people but it almost certainly didn’t come off as queerphobic.

                  • @Iheartcheese@lemmy.world
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                    3•6 months ago

                    Wasn’t my intention at all. My bad.

              • Draconic NEO
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                2•6 months ago

                Yeah, agreed.

    • AItoothbrush
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      64•6 months ago

      Shakespear rolling in his grave because even he used singular they…

      • @felykiosa@sh.itjust.works
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        21•6 months ago

        I don’t get it , I’m French btw

        • @BluesF@lemmy.world
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          Instead of “s/he is” you can say “they are”, even though it’s singular. “They” is the preferred pronoun for any situation where gender is unclear or (usually, but not always) for non binary people.

          • @felykiosa@sh.itjust.works
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            30•6 months ago

            Oh sorry I brutaly translated this from French where we say" iel " (contraction of “Elle” and “il” our feminine and masculine pronoun). I already saw they but I didn’t thought about it.

            • @mossy_@lemmy.world
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              15•6 months ago

              It’s all good! The fact that you want to be inclusive is great. They have a contraction for nonbinary pronouns in french? that’s awesome.

              • Vivian (they/them)
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                19•6 months ago

                Well, it’s a neopronoun, so while it’s popular enough for most people to understand what it means, in my experience “iel” sadly gets a lot of pushback (“oh but we don’t do that in French” etc.) which means it’s rarely used in contexts other than to refer to non-binary people who have expressed a preference for “iel”.

                • @mossy_@lemmy.world
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                  9•6 months ago

                  Yeah that sounds familiar

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