• @ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1452 months ago

    In my experience that doesn’t usually happen, instead they simply see the daughter as another piece of property theirs to control (which is often framed as “protect”), and draw validation of their (toxic) masculinity from (making themselves feel like “big men” by threatening to harm any guy who comes near her for example).

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        442 months ago

        a woman they don’t want to sleep with,

        Sadly this isn’t always the case, there’s often a deeply incestuous vibe (and sometimes more than that) to that kind of ownership some men take of their daughters (I don’t really feel like looking through the results for this search right now, but I remember several images of men wearing t shirts saying shit like “the only one who gets to touch my daughter is me” and creepy shit like that).

        There are so many different layers of fucked up to a relationship between a misogynistic man and his daughter., it really is so unfortunate, but it’s just one more way in which the patriarchy maintains itself.

        • @rockSlayer@lemmy.worldM
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          92 months ago

          I don’t know how they did it, but the channel has managed to create a very wholesome community for deprogramming people on the far right. I highly recommend them!

          • @ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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            2 months ago

            I don’t really watch much yt (E: but it’s always good to have decent recommendations to make to those who do), but I’ll give them a look, definitely made a good first impression 👍

            • @Darorad@lemmy.world
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              42 months ago

              I’ll second the recommendation, Belle (the guy in that video is Beau who used to run the channel) does a great job. Also just really good coverage of current events.