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my pasta maker under an inch of dust
But I keep the blender, cause once every year or two I want to make a smoothie and I have plenty of storage.
But the good news is you just kinda learn quite a bit about every hobby you pick up, so people are always impressed with how much random stuff you know.
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My memory is really, really good. It’s my recall that’s crap. Feels more like my brain works like RAM and not a hard drive in that my memories are randomly accessed.
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If it was Ram then everything you learned would disappear when you went to sleep.
I mean, it does feel like that sometimes.
I remember enough to somewhat know what I’m talking about and especially enough to know what I need to quickly google to get the full details.
Not necessarily in a way where I can effectively demonstrate everything I’ve learned, but sure, a lot goes somewhere in the back of my memory bank. It’s created job opportunities for me in disruptive tech fields because I’m just able to absorb so much in that initial hyperfocus phase, and come across like a subject matter expert on something I just heard about a couple of weeks ago. Sucks when you land in what seems to be a great position and just lose interest in the field though. Good recipe for imposter syndrome
Not in tech anymore but I definitely do this with my jobs. It really sucks because I could be doing so much more but I just can’t be bothered to care after the I got a new job and this is interesting phase. But at least I have these random bits of information that I can pretend to be smart with thst come up at the most inopportune times. 🤣 I feel you on the imposter syndrome.
With that I relate. I don’t have knowledge, but only surface information about a variety of topics, because I fricking jump from one thing and the other, and this maddens me.
My knowledge base has the breadth of an ocean, but the depth of a puddle.
Good comparison
Analogy* 🤓
Thanks, I’m not native, so my written English is janky, but at least I can convey my meaning.
at least I can convey my meaning.
Yeah, that’s what’s most important. I just wanted to help you out with the emote as a joke.
“I know enough to finish this if I wanted to”
This is true, though sometimes one may unintentionally come across as a “know it all” (I know this from experience). Having an unending number of hobbies and the philosophy of “there is no such thing as useless knowledge”, just leads to accruing knowledge on a wide breadth of topics and surprising depth on some of the more esoteric.
I can tell you about some of the practical efforts required to safely raise chickens in the PNW (free-range, in a yard, or chicken tractors), several forms of metal casting, basic garment construction, luthiery, gardening, archery, industrial microbiology, and a number of other things. My former boss would often ask if I knew anything about a given unusual topic that came up in conversation, just to see if he could find something that I didn’t have any knowledge or experience with (really old programming languages like COBOL were among the winners). Now, I’m currently really into digital electronics, so, I’m shopping around for an oscilloscope and other equipment that would allow me to reverse engineer some of the newer protocols.
Crap, I have ADHD
The story of this community 😂
✅ I’m in this picture and I don’t like it
bought a slow cooker last week, been absolutely on my midwest shit
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And I’m also tired of people constantly downplaying my patterns, and always saying it’s not “really” ADHD, then wondering why I’m acting so odd and different. Or why I’m struggling with stuff even though “everybody does that”. This sort of mentality has hurt me massively.
Maybe it’s more nuanced than “this is adhd” and “this is not”. Maybe it had to do with the intensity and rate of occurrence as well? But do you feel that a tweet needs to include all the goddamn nuances that come with a disorder that is primarily diagnosed by the intensity and disruptiveness of its symptoms just to make a joke?
Maybe the people who liked the post also have ADHD and understand that this is a single example of a trend and not a one time thing.
Woah now, assuming people on the internet are real human beings with the ability to read context and understand complex ideas? Are you crazy?
😂
Have you been on the Internet? What you’re describing is a statistical anomoly.
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Impulsively buying stuff, hyperfixating on it for some time, losing that fixation and then having problems with keeping it in your routine as a habit is very much ADHD. ADHD is not 1s ans 0s, how people experience it varies from person to person and the severity of their ADHD. If you didn’t have much problems with that in your life then I’m happy for you but I for example wasn’t lucky enough with dna and stuff.
Buying something new, using it then moving on is a neurotypical behavior.
I very much understand hyperfixation and then moving on but that’s not the example given. Buying a new toy, playing with it for two weeks then moving on is basic human behavior, not hyperfixation. Buying a blender then becoming so obsessed with it that you become fixated with it to the point where you think about it constantly, read, research and basically know more about it than could possibly be necessary then poof…gone, is hyperfixation.
Over diagnosing can lead to over correction. This is how we end up with basically normal people getting pumped full of meds that were not designed for them. Someone reads examples like the one posted, talks to a doctor and the next thing you know are on a cocktail of Adderall and antidepressants, which in turn destroys their ability to sleep, so then they also end up taking Ambien. So on, and so forth.
I am not minimizing the disruptive effects of ADHD, obviously. I am suggesting that EVERYONE take posts like this with a big grain of salt
ADHD is underdiagnosed, not over diagnosed. That’s is a really bad myth originating from parents who refuse to believe that their kids are different.
It’s far from that easy to get meds and a diagnosis, you know. You need to take an evaluation that lasts at least 3 hours in total. You are effectively saying that doctors don’t know what they’re doing, and that you know more than the literal experts.
It’s far from that easy to get meds and a diagnosis, you know. You need to take an evaluation that lasts at least 3 hours in total.
That wasn’t my experience at all. The meds definitely helped me but they also triggered high blood pressure, funky heart beats, and ultimately panic attacks. Then they gave me effexor for the panic attacks which made me twitch. There was no three hour eval for none of it. Doc just chatted me for like fifteen minutes about my struggles at work and gave me a script. I’m happy for those it helps but it took me years to clear that shit from my system. I rather forget half the shit I’m doing at any time than rely on meds again. Thankfully a few life hacks I picked up in Reddit have really helped me something serious.
Tons of intense, short-lived hobbies is one of the biggest hallmarks of ADHD.
This is how we end up with basically normal people getting pumped full of meds that were not designed for them. Someone reads examples like the one posted, talks to a doctor and the next thing you know are on a cocktail of Adderall and antidepressants, which in turn destroys their ability to sleep, so then they also end up taking Ambien. So on, and so forth.
Over-prevalence of this notion does a lot more harm to me than people wrongly identifying with the OP.
And that’s really more the responsibility of the doctor than the meme viewer anyway.
Just also be aware that leading experts in ADHD believe it is significantly under diagnosed, so we should be careful to thread this needle. On one hand, everything you said, but on the other is people who do need help not seeking it because they feel like their just a PoS trying to blame their failings on some disorder they don’t actually have.
I was part of the latter, finally getting diagnosed at 27, which is probably about 10 years later than it needed to be due to stigma of “over diagnosis” of adhd and “over medication”.
Yes, this tweet is very routine human behavior.
If it’s a pattern, this is absolutely found in a lot of people diagnosed with ADHD. But this Twitter user is clearly making a joke because they’re using a silly reference.
Would you like them to go through all the nuances of ADHD for you so you don’t need to do an “um, actually” like a professional online forum debater?
You missed the point. They’re equating an infrequent experience for neurotypical people to a facet of everyday life for those with ADHD.
It’s not about blenders. It’s that folks like us tend to go hard on new obsessions and then promptly lose interest.
Thank you. I was confused for a bit and pretty sure this is common stuff.
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This community has ONE rule, and ya broke it. Good job. https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/4051762
I discovered a great way to reduce the financial burden: join a Makerspace.
Since joining a local one, I now know:
- How to use a CNC laser cutter
- How to use a thickness planer
- How to use a MIG welder (poorly)
- And, as of today, how to use a TIG welder (also poorly but, I did better than with the MIG)
Still to come:
- How to use a terrifyingly powerful, 2.5 ton milling machine
- How to use a similar size lathe
- How to use a plasma cutter
- How to use a fiber laser
- How to use a vintage oscilloscope
And a ton more. Seriously, its awesome.
I’m so so jealous. The closest Makerspace to me is over 1 hour away.
Plasma cutting is fun your gonna like that 1!
I’ve absolutely fallen in love with TIG. I need a lot of practice but I’ve NEVER been able to lay as nice of a weld with stick or MIG.
Someone start a community to trade hobby startup equipment once you’re bored with it
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I feel seent
Doesn’t that just come with disposable income?
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Oh, I’m pretty sure I have ADHD, but I’m certain my wife doesn’t, and she has done this with smoothies and several other things. She doesn’t do it as frequently as me, but she definitely does it.
My point was that it’s ADHD if you do this a lot and have problems with controlling that behavior. There are totally different ways to achieve what’s in the post but it’s just a dumbed down joke meant for people do have ADHD and not the people outside the circle.
You got yours out of the box?
Hah, nice assumption I would ever get past the deep analysis required to even purchase a blender in the first place
Haha, seems recognizable. Blender x has a pulse setting, but blender y has an extra mini bowl for herbs. Can’t choose so I’ll just forget about it.
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*ADHD is when you’re NT but want an excuse for rash impulses and resulting lack of commitment
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I was just thinking how I’m tired of seeing even the most normal scenarios constantly attributed to ADHD just to try and squeeze some humor out of it.
And that’s why I never made it as a writer
